Pregnancy Stories By Age

Her 1st and only at 52

2012-02-14T09:00:00.003-05:00

There are many women who have successful pregnancies over 50.

My acupuncture doctor has had two clients [over 50 years old], one was 52 (her first and only, and natural), and the other was 58 years old!!!

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Conquering Infertility: Dr. Alice Domar's Mind/Body Guide to Enhancing Fertility and Coping with Infertility
-- Infertility is a heartbreaking condition that affects nine million American couples each year. It causes tremendous stress, can trigger debilitating sadness and depression, and can tear a marriage to shreds. In Conquering Infertility, Harvard psychologist Alice Domar—whom Vogue calls the “Fertility Goddess”—provides infertile couples with what they need most: stress relief, support, and hope. Using the innovative mind/body techniques she has perfected at her clinic, Domar helps infertile women not only regain control over their lives but also boost their chances of becoming pregnant.

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More "Pregnancy Over 40" blogs to visit:
Life Begins... - Miscarriage stories of loss, hope & help
Pregnancy Stories by Age - Daily blog of hope & inspiration!
You Can Get Pregnant in Your 40's - Sharing articles, discussing options & suggestions
Stories of Pregnancy and Birth over 44 years old - sharing news stories I find online, for inspiration!

She had her last baby at 49

2012-02-13T09:00:00.003-05:00

I am not sure that statistics are even gathered for women over 50.

I wish your friend the best of luck with her pregnancy.

I do know of one woman on the pregnancy board who had her last baby at 49.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Midlife Motherhood: A Woman-to-Woman Guide to Pregnancy and Parenting
-- What's a woman to do when she's facing menopause, toddlers, and elder care all at the same time? Women who have "been there and done that" provide some insight in Midlife Motherhood. Offering humor, warmth, and frankness, this is a hand-holding guide for the uninitiated.
What's on their minds:
· Common fears and concerns: from Down's syndrome to being too old
· Fertility challenges and what to physically expect from pregnancy
· How to juggle postpartum demands-parenting, working, caring for aging parents . . . and all at once!
· Hot flashes and warm bottles: coping with hormonal changes while caring for a new baby

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Twins at 50

2012-02-12T09:00:00.003-05:00

I knew a woman who had TWINS at 50 with her eggs... but she did have help (fertility drugs).

Both children were perfect.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Mothering Multiples: Breastfeeding and Caring for Twins or More!
-- A mother of multiple babies may find herself wondering if she can produce enough milk, how to coordinate feedings, and if breastfeeding is even an option for her. The simple answer: Yes! In the third revised edition of Mothering Multiples, author Karen Kerkhoff Gromada offers valuable information with an emphasis on breastfeeding and attachment-style parenting. All aspects of caring for multiple babies are addressed, including possible complications of pregnancy, preparing for a multiple birth, coping with newborns who might need to spend time in a NICU, establishing a milk supply for multiple babies, adjusting as a couple, and caring for toddler multiples.

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Three boys at 47 - 24, 4, and 16 months

2012-02-11T09:00:00.004-05:00

I had my first marriage at 21 and first baby at 23... Sixteen years later I got divorced...

Married again at 43, and we wanted a family.

Well now, at 47, I have 3 beautiful boys, 24 years old, 4 years old, and 16 months. I have more patience now with the two little ones than I had when I was young with my first.

I love being a mom, and especially now as I am older, I really know what it means to enjoy your children.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
40 and Pregnant!: What to expect when you are having your first child and are at (or near) the age of 40
-- This is a book for women who are at or near the age of 40 and pregnant for the first time. This book explains many things that happen to a woman, her body and her mind when having children later in life. It is also helpful to anyone who is pregnant or just recently had a baby.
About the Author: I am a mother of two and a full time legal secretary for a high profile law firm. Trying to juggle family life and a career at the same time can be difficult. I would like to share with you what to expect when you are ... 40 and Pregnant!

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Two boys - at 43 and 46

2012-02-10T09:00:00.002-05:00

I got married one month before turning 43, had baby two months before turning 44, pretty quick.

The next one took longer..

Pregnant two months before turning 46, had baby at 46 1/2...both healthy, both natural. Had some complications near end of pregnancy with both, but all turned out well.

My two boys are healthy and normal and happy and I am having so much fun as a chunky mama (so I have gained quite a few lbs)

They keep me going, and I love it.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Green Fertility: Nature's Secrets For Making Babies: A Powerful Proven Plan To Help You Get Pregnant Fast and Have a Healthy Baby
-- Renowned fertility expert Dr. Niels Lauersen and women's natural wellness expert Colette Bouchez combine the best of nature's secrets with all that Eastern and Western medicine have to offer, in an easy, inexpensive plan to help you get pregnant fast and have super healthy babies! Based on scientific research and tested on thousands of couples, this unique natural approach to conception is designed to uncover what's keeping you from getting pregnant and help you maximize your fertility and have healthier babies - even if you have PCOS, Endometriosis or you are diagnosed with unexplained infertility!

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Having her first baby at 48

2012-02-09T09:00:00.002-05:00

I wanted to share some more "OVER 45!" stories. I went to a new OB/Gyn this week. He told me he just had a patient this week who is 48 years old and is having her first baby!

He explained that he has also delivered 2 babies this last month to woman over 40. All natural... all no complications!!

I am starting TCM [Traditional Chinese Medicine] and acupuncture and my TCM Dr. informed me that two women, both who had numerous IVF's [in vitro fertilization] with no pregnancy, are now both pregnant!!! Both natural.

One of the woman had been trying for a year doing TCM and was about to give up, when she was blessed with a baby!!!

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Mom was 44 when she had my brother

2012-02-08T09:00:00.003-05:00

My mother had 6 children before me. Dad had a vasectomy, and mom got pregnant 3 years later with me!

Then dad had another, and yet again 3 years later mom got pregnant with my younger sister.

They said he was one of those rare cases when a male has more than one tube, sounds strange doesn't it? The doctors told him he should have had them cut, not tied as well.

Anyways, when my mother was 41 they told he she couldn't have any more children, amazingly enough yet another 3 years passed as she became pregnant with baby #9 my little brother. She was 44 when she had Alastiar.

She never thought she would be a mother of 9. Our family is awesome, I have so many built in friends! I’m so blessed to have parents who didn't believe in abortion otherwise me, my sister Victoria or my baby brother wouldn't be here!

Miracles do happen and I’m so glad to be called one Good luck with you family. God bless.

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Twins at 44

2012-02-07T09:00:00.001-05:00

I worked with a lady that had twins at age 44.

She is a wonderful mother.

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My mother was 45

2012-02-06T09:00:00.000-05:00

You’re not too old. My mother was 45 when she had my little sister. I was 17 my brother was 20. Built in babysitters.

We were all shocked but super excited also. You will have lots of help with the little one.

I hope everything turns out for you. I just wanted to let you know about my mom.

My sister is now almost 12 and as healthy as a horse.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
But I Don't Feel Too Old to Be a Mommy!: The Complete Sourcebook for Starting (and Re-Starting) Motherhood Beyond 35 and After 40
-- the first and only book to fully address the concerns of the ever-growing but greatly ignored audience of literate, educated women who have delayed motherhood. In this comprehensive work, women who are considering parenting in their 30s, 40s and later-whether for the first time or starting over-will find all the information they need to make informed choices.
Complete with quotes from medical experts, later-in-life moms and their kids, this one-stop book will calm the doubts and fears of women considering motherhood after 35 and beyond 40 by providing supportive yet realistic information.

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Surprise pregnancy at 47

2012-02-05T09:00:00.000-05:00

I have a friend who had a surprise pregnancy when she was 47. She had a great 2 hour labour. No problems.

I know so many women in their forties who have had babies. The list can go on and on.

As long as you are ovulating regularly, you will be fine.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Surprise Motherhood: A Guide to Unexpected Adult Pregnancy
-- Pregnancy books on the market have one of two audiences- the teen with an unplanned pregnancy or the adult with a planned and chosen one. Nowhere is there a book for the almost 3 million adult women facing surprise pregnancy every year.
Surprise Motherhood is aimed directly at that gap, telling the stories of Ophelia and other women who have faced unplanned pregnancy as adult, professional women. With extensive information about options, paternity, career issues, postpartum depression, finances, and more, Surprise Motherhood is the only reference of its kind, and is sure to be an invaluable reader resource.

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She delivered at 45 years old

2012-02-04T09:00:00.000-05:00

My sister got pregnant and had a child in her 40's.

A friend got pregnant twice in her 40's/ 1 miscarriage, the other she delivered at 45 years old and he is OK

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
You Can Get Pregnant Over 40, Naturally: Overcoming infertility and recurrent miscarriage in your late 30's and 40's naturally
-- Feeling physically, emotionally and financially drained after years of fertility treatments, Sandy Robertson started researching natural methods to enhance fertility. This led to a specific pregnancy protocol which includes how she conceived multiple times over the age of 40 with only one fallopian tube, overcame recurrent miscarriage, balanced hormones, increased pelvic circulation,practiced visualization and meditation, reduced stress, and found support.

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Our daughter born at 44

2012-02-03T09:00:00.000-05:00

My husband and I both converted to Dr. Fuhrman’s plant-based approach to eating, enjoying a tremendous increase in energy levels, lower cholesterol, loss of excess weight, and we were able to conceive our first child.

I enjoyed two complication-free pregnancies, no small detail, giving birth to our son at age 39 and our daughter at 44.

While pregnant, Dr. Fuhrman helped tremendously with bouts of nausea, but there were no other complications.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Rewinding Your Biological Clock: Motherhood Late in Life
-- In 1996, Dr. Richard Paulson assisted a 63-year-old woman to conceive using in vitro fertilization with a donor egg, and she became the oldest woman in the world to give birth. This incredible example of how assisted reproductive technologies, or ART, can change the course of nature, raises tough biological, emotional, and ethical issues. Rewinding Your Biological Clock is a unique exploration of each of these issues, especially the "how-to" of peri- and post-menopausal pregnancy. Written by a leading fertility specialist and a health educator, this original and daring book rethinks society's most fundamental beliefs about motherhood, aging and life itself.

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Every cell in our body is replaced every 7 years

2012-02-02T09:00:00.002-05:00

I don't believe that our eggs are old. It just doesn't make logical sense. There was an article posted a while back about how every cell in our body is replaced every 7 years? Does it make sense that every other cell is replaced, except our eggs? That men's sperm cells are made daily, but our eggs are stagnant?

What I think they really mean is the basis for our eggs is there from the start, but they don't start to mature until 3 months before they are needed. So, in reality, they are only 3 months old.

What we need are healthy bodies, that haven't been exposed to a lot of chromosomal damage, and a good balance of hormones to support a pregnancy. Then I think that, as long as you are still cycling, still ovulating, and you have no other medical reasons to prevent a conception - you can get successfully pregnant - no matter how old you are.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
The Infertility Cure: The Ancient Chinese Wellness Program for Getting Pregnant and Having Healthy Babies
-- Infertility affects one out of six couples today. Dr. Lewis presents a groundbreaking alternative approach to infertility, explaining how she used traditional Chinese medicine to treat her own infertility, successfully conceiving and giving birth to two children.
In Lewis's experience, women who have undergone three to six months of the dietary changes, herbs and acupuncture treatments become pregnant with no further effort. Lewis intersperses her somewhat technical examination of the program with anecdotes about her patients, weaving in discussions on diet, herbal supplements, acupuncture, older women and problems related to infertility.

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Youngest born when I was 44

2012-02-01T09:00:00.004-05:00

After eight months of taking care of myself, I discovered I was pregnant.

My younger daughter was born when I was 44.

The changes I have made in my lifestyle became useful, because I needed to be in shape to take care of two children.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Hot Flashes Warm Bottles : First-Time Mothers Over Forty
-- The first prescriptive and anecdotal guidebook for the multitudes of older moms, and distills the wisdom, insight, and practical advice gathered during her years as a therapist and support group leader. With tips for renewing physical and sexual energy, parenting after infertility and adoption, balancing career and family, and caring for elderly parents, the personal stories from these older moms are often humorous, sometimes surprising, but always reassuring. Without exception, the reader will be left with the comforting knowledge that she is not alone on her journey. Hot Flashes fills a much-needed place in the parenting field, at a time when more and more women are embracing motherhood later in life.

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High FSH at 44

2012-01-31T09:00:00.006-05:00

I had high FSH [Follicle-stimulating hormone] too.

I tried acupuncture and TCM [Traditional Chinese Medicine] after a chemical pregnancy and before gearing up for another IUI [intrauterine insemination] and got a BFP [big fat positive - pregnancy test] on the second cycle.

I am now half way through my pregnancy with a healthy baby girl! I am 44 years old.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

Fertility Wisdom: How Traditional Chinese Medicine Can Help Overcome Infertility
-- At Wu's Healing Center in San Francisco, miracles are happening. Women and their partners come to the clinic--often from across the country-- to fulfill a passionately held yet fragile dream: to conceive and deliver the healthy baby that mainstream doctors have told them they cannot have. Using traditional Chinese medical techniques, sometimes integrated with Western fertility treatments, Dr. Angela Wu is helping these couples experience the miracle of birth.

In this book, Dr. Wu details a proven 6-part self-care regimen that helps create the internal harmony and balance vital to conception. Her techniques not only enhance the results and reduce the side effects of in vitro and other Western fertility treatments, they also shorten labor and speed postpartum recovery. Babies benefit too, adopting regular sleep patterns more quickly and getting sick less frequently.
At a time when one in five U.S. couples is struggling with fertility problems, this practical and uplifting volume, filled with the inspirational stories of Dr. Wu's grateful patients, will be a godsend.

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Just gave birth to twins at 44

2012-01-30T09:00:00.003-05:00

I had my first baby at 40.5 and just gave birth to twins at 44. It's totally do-able.

I work full time also. Only you can know what's right for you and your family.

If you do TTC again - much luck!

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

Mothering Multiples: Breastfeeding and Caring for Twins or More!
-- A mother of multiple babies may find herself wondering if she can produce enough milk, how to coordinate feedings, and if breastfeeding is even an option for her. The simple answer: Yes! In the third revised edition of Mothering Multiples, author Karen Kerkhoff Gromada offers valuable information with an emphasis on breastfeeding and attachment-style parenting. All aspects of caring for multiple babies are addressed, including possible complications of pregnancy, preparing for a multiple birth, coping with newborns who might need to spend time in a NICU, establishing a milk supply for multiple babies, adjusting as a couple, and caring for toddler multiples.

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Dr said no chance, pregnant at 45

2012-01-29T09:00:00.002-05:00

I got pregnant at 45.5 after being told by Dr. Sher that I had "no chance". I was very happy to send him a birth announcement.

Natural - NO nothing...had given up TCM [Traditional Chinese Medicine] a year before.

Was still strict about my diet...no sugar, no dairy and nothing white.

Still did wheat-grass a few times a week up until the [positive] beta.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

The Fertility Diet: Groundbreaking Research Reveals Natural Ways to Boost Ovulation and Improve Your Chances of Getting Pregnant
-- Reveals startling new research from the landmark Nurses' Health Study, which shows that the food you eat can boost your fertility. The book prescribes ten simple changes in diet and activity that can increase your chances of getting pregnant.
Groundbreaking findings into changes you can put into practice today, setting the stage for a healthy pregnancy and forming the foundation for an eating strategy that will serve you well for the rest of your life. The Fertility Diet also offers a week's worth of meal plans and delicious recipes that will make following the guidelines easy and tasty.

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Twins at 50 with her own eggs

2012-01-28T09:00:00.002-05:00

I know a woman who had twins at 50 using her own eggs! She was the talk of DC back in 1994... however, they needed some assistance (drugs).

I think some people can produce good eggs much later in life, but not most. And this woman smoked when she was younger, although she was very healthy and not overweight.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

Green Fertility: Nature's Secrets For Making Babies: A Powerful Proven Plan To Help You Get Pregnant Fast and Have a Healthy Baby
-- Renowned fertility expert Dr. Niels Lauersen and women's natural wellness expert Colette Bouchez combine the best of nature's secrets with all that Eastern and Western medicine have to offer, in an easy, inexpensive plan to help you get pregnant fast and have super healthy babies! Based on scientific research and tested on thousands of couples, this unique natural approach to conception is designed to uncover what's keeping you from getting pregnant and help you maximize your fertility and have healthier babies - even if you have PCOS, Endometriosis or you are diagnosed with unexplained infertility!

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Another baby at 44

2012-01-27T09:00:00.002-05:00

Hey, I conceived twins at 42! And then another baby at 44.

I'll soon be 47, and no sign of another one yet. I'm thinking things might be winding down here. And that's okay. I've been blessed beyond my wildest dreams!

Never did I imagine having four babies in my 40's!

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

40 and Pregnant!: What to expect when you are having your first child and are at (or near) the age of 40
-- This is a book for women who are at or near the age of 40 and pregnant for the first time. This book explains many things that happen to a woman, her body and her mind when having children later in life. It is also helpful to anyone who is pregnant or just recently had a baby.
About the Author: I am a mother of two and a full time legal secretary for a high profile law firm. Trying to juggle family life and a career at the same time can be difficult. I would like to share with you what to expect when you are ... 40 and Pregnant!

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Pregnant with 1st at 44

2012-01-26T09:00:00.002-05:00

I'm 44 on September 6th and found out last Wednesday that I'm pregnant with my first baby. Baby is due May 3/07 according to internet.

First Doctor's appointment is on September 20th. I'm a little afraid due to all the statistics, but I believe God gave us this blessing and I'm going to stay positive.

I was glad to find a place for my age to post where God is glorified. Hubby and I got married last year. He has a 19 year old daughter having her first baby in December!

This is my first marriage and first pregnancy.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

Midlife Motherhood: A Woman-to-Woman Guide to Pregnancy and Parenting
-- What's a woman to do when she's facing menopause, toddlers, and elder care all at the same time? Women who have "been there and done that" provide some insight in Midlife Motherhood. Offering humor, warmth, and frankness, this is a hand-holding guide for the uninitiated.
What's on their minds:
· Common fears and concerns: from Down's syndrome to being too old
· Fertility challenges and what to physically expect from pregnancy
· How to juggle postpartum demands-parenting, working, caring for aging parents . . . and all at once!
· Hot flashes and warm bottles: coping with hormonal changes while caring for a new baby

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Six weeks along at 44

2012-01-25T09:00:00.002-05:00

I am 44 and due on April 10/07... only six weeks along right now, but my first ultrasound looked good this week!

I have a 19 year old son, an 18 year old daughter and an 11 year old step-son. All siblings are very excited about this upcoming birth!

I will be 45 at delivery but am at complete peace with this pregnancy as I know it is all in God's hands. My husband and I were not expecting this at all, but we are feeling truly blessed and excited beyond belief!

I'm glad I found this site as it is very encouraging... Thank You!

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

Ready: Why Women Are Embracing The New Later Motherhood
In 2006, one in every twelve women giving birth for the first time in the US was 35 or older, while in 1970 it was just one in one hundred. Add in the many contemporary later adoptive moms and you’ve got a substantial portion of the population starting families after 35!

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Due date right before my 45th birthday

2012-01-24T09:00:00.003-05:00

I hate to confess it, but lately I've just been SOOOO tired and worn out. I recall the same thing when I was pregnant with my first in 2004.

Not to complain, I know that this too, will pass, and that "they who wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength..."

My due date is February 26, right before my 45th birthday, and I'm now in my 10th week.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

Making Babies the Hard Way: Living with Infertility and Treatment
- a frank account of one couple's discovery that they cannot have children of their own, and their ensuing struggle through four years of fertility treatment. One in six couples worldwide seek assistance to conceive and 80 per cent of couples undergoing fertility treatment are currently unsuccessful. Writing with humour and honesty, Caroline Gallup describes the social, emotional, spiritual and physical impact of infertility on her and her husband, Bruce, including feelings of bereavement for the absent child, the unavoidable sense of inadequacy and the day-to-day difficulties of financial pressure. As well as telling her own moving story, she also offers information and guidance for others who are infertile, or who are considering or undergoing treatment.

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No higher risk for Down's Syndrome

2012-01-23T09:00:00.003-05:00

Women over 40 DO NOT have a higher risk for Down's Syndrome babies. That statistic is skewed.

The risk is higher for Down's babies with a FIRST pregnancy and since in the last 20 years a greater majority of women were choosing to put off having babies until in their 40's all of a sudden the instances of Down's babies over the age of 40 increased drastically!

But it wasn't women in general over 40 having babies...it was STILL first pregnancies with the high risk - it just so happened that many more of these first pregnancies were occurring over age 40.

Thus the stats changed but were never explained accurately.

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

Gifts: Mothers Reflect on How Children with Down Syndrome Enrich Their Lives
-- Having a baby with Down syndrome is not something most parents would willingly choose. Yet many who travel this path discover rich, unexpected rewards along the way. In this candid and poignant collection of personal stories, sixty-three mothers describe the gifts of respect, strength, delight, perspective, and love, which their child with Down syndrome has brought into their lives. The contributors to this collection have diverse personalities and perspectives, and draw from a wide spectrum of ethnicity, world views, and religious beliefs. Some are parenting within a traditional family structure; some are not. Some never considered terminating their pregnancy; some struggled with the decision. Some were calm at the time of diagnosis; some were traumatized. Some write about their pregnancy and the months after giving birth; some reflect on years of experience with their child. Their diverse experiences point to a common truth: The life of a child with Down syndrome is something to celebrate. These women have something to say--not just to other mothers but to all of us.

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Aunt had her last baby when she was 53

2012-01-22T09:00:00.003-05:00

A gal I went to college with (we both got saved around the same time), and whom I saw on our recent vacation had two children in her 40's.

Also my aunt had her last baby when she was 53 (but of course, she died when I was 19 so it was a long time ago).

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Sister-in-law had her baby at 46

2012-01-21T09:00:00.003-05:00

My sister-in-law had her most recent at 46. She had more than one in her 40's.

However, now that I am dealing with morning sickness and fatigue at 43, I can't imagine how I will cope with 2 AM feedings at 44! God's Grace!!

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Pregnant at 45, 46, 47, 48

2012-01-20T09:00:00.003-05:00

I know personally one mother who gave birth at 46.

Another good friend of mine gave birth at 45 (nearing 46).

I had babies at 40 and 43.

My midwife told me she delivered a 48 year old and my OB said she delivered a 47 year old. (Those don't really count as knowing personally, though.)

Oh, also my mom had her youngest at 41.

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Got pregnant at 48

2012-01-19T09:00:00.002-05:00

I know of a gal who used to post on CHFWeb (homeschooling forum) who was 48 and got pregnant!

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TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:

The Infertility Cure: The Ancient Chinese Wellness Program for Getting Pregnant and Having Healthy Babies
-- Infertility affects one out of six couples today. Dr. Lewis presents a groundbreaking alternative approach to infertility, explaining how she used traditional Chinese medicine to treat her own infertility, successfully conceiving and giving birth to two children.
In Lewis's experience, women who have undergone three to six months of the dietary changes, herbs and acupuncture treatments become pregnant with no further effort. Lewis intersperses her somewhat technical examination of the program with anecdotes about her patients, weaving in discussions on diet, herbal supplements, acupuncture, older women and problems related to infertility.

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Baby at 56

2012-01-18T09:00:00.003-05:00

I know two women who had a baby at an older age. One women, who I'll call "Lilly" had a baby at the age of 56. She looks like a 35 year old and her daughter turn out just fine. No mental problems and the mother took no drugs. It was all natural.

Another women which I'll call "Starr" has a 6 year old healthy daughter and she was in her forties when she had her. I plan to have a baby when I’m 35. Babies have less problems when we have them at an older age.

Another woman which I will call "Classy Lady" has a 6 year old daughter. She, too was in her late forties. The girl is as smart as a whip. She, like all the other stories that I tell you, is doing real well in school. They're living normal lives.

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Life Begins... - Miscarriage stories of loss, hope & help
Stories of Pregnancy over 44 years old - sharing stories I find online, for inspiration!
You Can Get Pregnant in Your 40's - Sharing articles, discussing options & suggestions

Pregnant after 4 years of trying

2012-01-17T09:00:00.001-05:00

My RE [reproductive endocrinologist] doctor has a patient who used DHEA [5-Dehydroepiandrosterone] at age of 44 when nothing else worked.

She waited 4 months after starting, did one more IUI [intra-uterine insemination] and got pregnant after 4 years of trying.

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Born when her mom was 45

2012-01-16T09:00:00.001-05:00

Just was out tonight with a friend, who was born when her mother was 45.

She is a very bright woman, so she was definitely from a "good egg"!

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Baby at 45, with my own egg

2012-01-15T09:00:00.002-05:00

I had my baby at 45, my own egg. Went to the Centre for Human Reproduction with Dr. Karande.

Followed cycle with ultrasound, and blood-work, had only one folly, did back to back IUI's [intrauterine insemination], HCG [human chorionic gonadotrophin] trigger shot, and will never forget the call from the nurse, "you have a beta found positive!"

RE [reproductive endocrinologist] doctor was in disbelief, but thrilled for us!!!
It does happen, don't give up!!!

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Conceived him when she was 45

2012-01-14T09:00:00.001-05:00

Not Impossible!!

My ex-husband's mother conceived him when she was 45 (natural, of course, since that was 48 years ago).

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Grandma had 3 children - all in her 40s

2012-01-13T09:00:00.002-05:00

Some people simply refuse to believe women over 40 can get pregnant.

I have a girlfriend who is that way. She always assumes any woman over 40 has gotten pregnant using a DE [donor egg].

My grandmother had 3 children - all in her 40s. And, there was no such thing back then as "donor eggs".

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47y woman conceived naturally

2012-01-12T09:00:00.003-05:00

I am 42 and pregnant naturally. My doctor's office is always filled with 40+ moms-to-be.

My doctor recently helped birth a baby from a 47 year old woman who conceived naturally.

Do not give up hope.
Do not let the negativity of others keep you from attaining your dream.

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Pregnant more than 3 times over 40

2012-01-11T09:00:00.002-05:00

Posted By Marla on 2006-09-18

I love this site. I too married after 40. Miscarriage after 10 months of trying (natural), then pregnant with my first through IVF [in vitro fertilization].

Baby born in 2003, tried IVF and it did not work for second baby in 2005.

Pregnant again at 44 (natural) and miscarriage at 14 weeks. Ready again and my faith is high.

I have been pregnant more than three times so far and believe I will add to my family. My daughter wants a sister and brother.

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Irregular cycles at 45

2012-01-10T09:00:00.002-05:00

I too have a friend at 45, natural pregnancy and certainly NOT DE [donor egg] - so I too wish people would stop being so negative. I have evidence in a close friend of mine that natural pregnancies are possible over 40.

She has her first at 42 when she was told she had not a chance, and then again at 45 when her cycles were not regular - both were natural and both are PERFECT and beautiful little girls.

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45y friend did IVF and is pregnant

2012-01-09T09:00:00.002-05:00

A 45 year old friend of mine just did IVF [in vitro fertilization] and is pregnant. She has done 2 IVF's, one at 42 and this one.

She now has a little girl 20 months old and is expecting another in 9 months - very high numbers on the IVF.

THERE IS HOPE!

Of all things she did both IVF's at CCRM [Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine]. Her own eggs, got 5, put 3 back.

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Great Grandma - last one was at 51

2012-01-08T09:00:00.002-05:00

By the way, my great grandmother birthed 9 children, and the last one was at age 51. I think she had two in her forties.

I just found this out at my family reunion in June.

They talked about how she tried to hide her pregnancy from strangers, as she was embarrassed to be having kids *so late* because at that time it wasn't as common as it is now.

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At 54 she has 2 beautiful miracle babies

2012-01-07T09:00:00.002-05:00

My cousin married, never had children because of her husband and other personal issues. I am proud to say that at 54, my cousin has 2 beautiful miracle babies.

She has been on Oprah and Dr. Phil discussing this very issue.

I'm proud of Carolyn and any other mom/dad who make a choice to have children later in life to ensure their financial well-being as well as their emotional well-being.

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Pregnant again at 44

2012-01-06T09:00:00.001-05:00

I have a friend who also had scant periods and was paranoid that she was being menopausal.

Since then she has had a baby, and is currently pregnant again!! (She will soon be 44).

So don't give up....!!

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Surprise, thought I was done with diapers...

2012-01-05T09:00:00.001-05:00

I don’t like stats because my brother-in-law (a retired OB Gyn) says they're only counting the women who are trying to get pregnant at 44...

Thus having a hard time already...

Not the 44 who get pregnant and at his practice, 99% of them were not happy about being pregnant at 44.... You know the surprise, thought I was done with diapers type....

Those who turn up pregnant at 44 are not counted into the stats of 44 year old pregnancies... am I making sense?

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My aunt had another one at 44

2012-01-04T09:00:00.001-05:00

I hate that my aunt didn't want kids, and suddenly at 40 decided she did, and 6 months later got pregnant, and then had another one at 44.

I don't think this will be my lucky fate.

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Pregnant by accident at 50

2012-01-03T09:00:00.002-05:00

Check out the Lifetime movie on right now - about a woman 50 years old, got pregnant by accident.

The doctor told her all the problems she could have. But in the end, said that most older women do okay..

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First time pregnant at 48

2012-01-02T09:00:00.002-05:00

There are so many women who get naturally pregnant in their 43, 44, 45th year and over!

Just yesterday, my husband told me about a sister of an acquaintance of him who got first time pregnant at 48, when she thought to be in menopause.

Now the "baby" is a wonderful girl 12 years old!

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Grandma had her last at 54

2012-01-01T09:00:00.001-05:00

I had my daughter 3 months shy of my 40th birthday. My sister, her son at 41.

It HAS taken me longer to lose the weight and recover than my 20 something neighbour but I accept that.

I had a grandmother who had her last at 54.

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Friend had twins at 55 with DE

2011-12-31T09:00:00.001-05:00

I have a friend who had twins at 55 via IVF with donor's eggs......... and oh, she looked gorgeous with her belly sticking out at six month, seven month etc.

Uneventful...uncomplicated pregnancy and grey haired and all.......just beautiful.

She inspired me and also my sister gave birth to her 3rd child at 45 and the doctor has told her to keep going... if she wanted...

A few other women I knew personally conceived naturally and by surprise at age 47!

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First child, 2nd pregnancy at 44

2011-12-30T09:00:00.001-05:00

My husband is 10 years younger than me and I think it probably helps!!!

I delivered a healthy baby boy on June 7, 2006 - my first child, second pregnancy. I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks in January 2005 and got pregnant with my little guy about 6 months later. I will be 45 in October.

We are TTCing #2 right away. The stakes seem less high this time but we really would like another, so what the heck...? I had a great pregnancy and natural delivery.

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Pregnant at 44 - it's a girl!

2011-12-29T09:00:00.003-05:00

After getting out BFP [big fat positive - pregnancy test] we were thrilled but cautiously optimistic. I did blood work right away to see if I needed supplementary progesterone, but my levels were fine.

We did the nuchal fold test, which looked good, but still opted to do an amnio. We were on a delayed honeymoon when we got the results back: all the chromosomes were lined up perfectly and the baby was a girl!

The first 29 weeks of the pregnancy have gone very smoothly — no problems except that it is very fatiguing to be pregnant at 44 — I have literally taken a couple of naps a day throughout the pregnancy.

It is funny that this pregnancy came when it did: I had gotten mentally weary of wishing for a baby. At the New Year I decided that we would continuing “trying” only up until my birthday ( April 1); we got our positive results on March 22.

I can’t help but believe that love was the magic “supplement”—not present in all our lab adventures but very much a part of our daily life.

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Tubes tied 19y ago & pregnant at 46

2011-12-28T09:00:00.002-05:00

Just had to share this. My best friend from interstate (I live in Qld Australia she lives in Vic) just rang me to tell me that she is pregnant. Nothing astounding you say.

Well she had her tubes tied 19 years ago and she is 46!! She was definitely not TTC.

She just keeps saying, "I'm 46, I'm 46" She is stunned to say the least. In fact I think she is in shock. Personally I think it's a lovely surprise.

Her other children (all boys) are 22, 21 and 19 years old.

Certainly gives me hope!

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Incredibly happy together & pregnant at 44

2011-12-27T09:00:00.001-05:00

When I finally met the greatest guy on the planet in June (on a 7-day trial of Yahoo personals) we decided to start a family right away. He was the first man I met that wasn't scared to death of the idea. So, here we are 3 months later, still incredibly happy together and pregnant!

We got the first positive last night and I tested again this morning. No change, still pregnant!

I'm 44. I have no children, just dogs. This will be my first (if it sticks!!). I was on no medication and we did this completely naturally. I'm hypothyroid, successfully on medication and my diet is vegetarian (sometimes chicken if there's no fish).

We did nothing special, just banged alot! Maybe it helps that he's 12 years younger than me!

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Just got pregnant at 45

2011-12-26T09:00:00.002-05:00

When I met with [Dr Check], he mentioned a recent 45 year old who just got pregnant, because they finally discovered something.

I’m seeing him now and I’m 44 one of his older patients. When I started with him in May I was labelled as "No hormonal problems" but after working with him, we are finding out that there are some underlying hormonal problems that we only discovered from close monitoring.

It’s not only high FSH [Follicle-stimulating hormone] that could be the problem. He's great because he really looks into what could be preventing pregnant other than age, when a lot of RE's [reproductive endocrinologist] just slap a label on you, and consider your TTC [trying to conceive] efforts done.

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Neighbour had a surprise at 48

2011-12-25T09:00:00.001-05:00

I'm 36 and TTCing [trying to conceive] #2 since July. We have a son who will be 5 in December.

While it is not as easy, I know of many Mom's in their forties.

Our neighbour had a surprise at 48!

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My sister had a baby at 45

2011-12-24T09:00:00.001-05:00

I'm looking for someone to share a positive story... ideas on conception and any vitamins, supplements or anything else you might want to share to help me in this process.

I don't think I have much time - but my sister had a baby at 45 and he's a healthy boy.

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Perfect baby at 47

2011-12-23T09:00:00.001-05:00

I was with a friend last night, who went through many miscarriages in her 40's.

She has 4 living children ages 24, 12, 8, 8 (twins) and in April of this year she had a perfect baby at the age of 47.

I think God keeps putting these people back in my life to give me hope.

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Great-grandma had kids into her late 40s

2011-12-22T09:00:00.001-05:00

My great-grandmother, who continued to have kids into her late forties told me her cycles were ALWAYS 3 days. No matter what.

Mom had her last child at 44

2011-12-21T09:00:00.000-05:00

My mother had her last child at 44 and is still here enjoying her great-great grandchildren. I guess my point is none of us are sure of how long we will live.

We could be killed in a freak accident so age has nothing to do with that. You can't live your life being afraid of it.

Once women had large families and stopped having children when their bodies could no longer conceive. I am praying that God will again bless me with another child to add to my wonderful family.

My life has such joy in it and I wouldn't change anything at all.

At 45, I gave birth to my 1st child

2011-12-20T09:00:00.003-05:00

So I let go of trying to control my body and relaxed.

At age 45, I defied the experts and gave birth to my first child, a robust nine-pound girl, born during the time of the Olympic Games in Sydney.

My faith in magic was restored.

Here I sit 21 weeks at 45

2011-12-19T09:00:00.001-05:00

Hi, I'm 45, two children 18 and 20 and with new partner of 2 years (also early 50's and no kids)!

We honestly thought my baby making days were probably over (my age and ectopic pregnancy many years ago). So, unexpectedly, here I sit 21 weeks, very bumpful and healthy.

I was initially devastated, very scared of the increased risk of problems and felt irresponsible getting pregnant at my age. Midwives, friends and family have been so supportive - treating me normally....because that's what I am!

Only extra thing we have done is have the neucrofold scan at 13 weeks - all was fine. The stats tell us there are more risks at 45+, but they also say you still have much more chance of all being OK than not.

Bringing up a child with Downs at 51

2011-12-18T09:00:00.000-05:00

Hi I decided to give my baby a chance thanks to those who sent messages to me.

I went for a nuchal scan and blood test for downs last week and its come back as a one in two chance of downs etc. I am having an amnio on August 22nd to see if baby has Downs. My nuchal scan revealed 4.5mm and the norm is 2mm.

I don’t know what I will do if my baby has Downs don’t know if I will be strong enough to terminate or be able to bring up a child with Downs either at my grand old age of 51.

Does anyone out there have any experience of downs and if so can you give me some advice? I am so confused having gotten this far the father is out of the picture so just me and my 13 year old son now.

Many thanks for taking the time to read this, take care Linda

Pregnant with twins at 44

2011-12-17T09:00:00.000-05:00

I guess what I would want to know, were I in your shoes, is can you be more specific?

In other words, what are the chances of birth at, say, 30 weeks or earlier?

As one who was pregnant with twins at 44 (and despite APAs and NK cell problems, still delivered at term, thankfully), I know I had these milestones I checked off.

Aunt got pregnant at 49

2011-12-16T09:00:00.001-05:00

I think as long as you are are still getting regular periods and haven’t started menopause, you can get pregnant.

I’m 44, I’ve just entered a relationship that has become quite serious and we are planning to start trying in a few months.

I think we all know our bodies and woman can function and be pregnant well in their 40's.

I had a aunt who got pregnant at 49 and a bit.

Not menopause at 47 - pregnant with twins!

2011-12-15T09:00:00.001-05:00

I worked with a woman who thought she was starting menopause at 47 and turns out she was pregnant!

Everything turned out just fine, she had lovely twin girls but it was a shock to her and her family.

She had two grown sons at the time.

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Many women got pregnant - even at 44

2011-12-14T09:00:00.001-05:00

Please do not give up hope - I know many women in a similar position who are in their forties and gave got pregnant and had babies either through IVF and naturally - oldest of which is 44.

My mom had her 11th child at 45

2011-12-13T09:00:00.000-05:00

And count me in as choosing not to have kids after 35 (well, choosing not to have any at all, actually), because I don’t want to be like my mom, having her 11th child at the age of 45, and she’ll be ready to retire by the time he leaves home…

Grandma had her youngest child at 45

2011-12-12T09:00:00.001-05:00

Not to mention the fact that even if the average woman started having children earlier, that wouldn’t necessarily reduce the number of babies born to women over 35, because women that age can get pregnant by accident.

Older women have been having babies for thousands of years, and even in the days when medical help was pretty much non-existent, most of them survived the experience.

Queen Victoria was gone 40 when she had her youngest child.

My grandmother had her youngest child at 45. Hell, a friend of mine’s mother had twins at 43, entirely by accident (and of course, what with it being twins, everyone assumed she and her husband had been using fertility drugs rather than the Pill).

My grandmother had a baby at 49

2011-12-11T09:00:00.000-05:00

Question: Can you get pregnant after you go through Menopause?

Answer: Once you have gone a FULL year - 12 months of not having periods you are through Menopause. Then, you are no longer able to get pregnant "naturally". However, this can take several years before you get to this point.

Even if you skip 6 months...have a light period, and skip another 6 months...you are still considered peri-menopause.

During this time - you CAN get pregnant! And believe me...lots of women do! My grandmother had a baby at age 49 due to this misconception (pardon the pun).

Also, you can get pregnant past menopause via IVF with medical assistance.

SURPRISE! They got pregnant!

2011-12-10T09:00:00.001-05:00

Question: Can you get pregnant after you go through Menopause?

Answer: No, BUT the woman had better make sure that menopause is complete. I know a few women who thought, because they had no periods for a few months, that menopause was over for them. SURPRISE! They got pregnant!

Last delivery was a 46 year old mother

2011-12-09T09:00:00.000-05:00

Posted By anonymous on 2006-09-14
Well, I visited another midwife yesterday. Small practice, lovely lady, gorgeous birth centre with birthing tub available. Perfect.

She said her last delivery was a 46 year old mother. No problems, no worries.

Gave birth to a beautiful little girl at 43

2011-12-08T09:00:00.001-05:00

Posted By Stacy Y. on 2006-08-25
My husband and I TTC for nearly 4-1/2 yrs and were unsuccessful. At ages 46 and 42, we decided apply for adoption program within the county where we live.

Before we completed adoption classes on 3/2004, we found out that we conceived 2/2004. Unfortunately, we miscarried 5 weeks along.

My OB/GYN encouraged me by saying that at least we knew I had the capability to get pregnant. My younger sister had done research on estrogen dominance, of which I had many of the symptoms.

So, after the miscarriage, I started progesterone cream treatment, and two months later, we were pregnant! We had a healthy, full-term pregnancy and gave birth to a beautiful little girl, one month before I turned 43.

I have been very uncertain about having another child at my age (I'm 44 now), but after reading all of these wonderful and encouraging comments, maybe we will TTC this year!

Used my own eggs at 45

2011-12-07T09:00:00.000-05:00

I answered the poll as one who gave birth at the age of 45.

I conceived at 44, and I was 45 and 2 months old when I gave birth to a beautiful, perfectly healthy girl after an uneventful pregnancy.

Just so you know, I used my own eggs (well, just one). I don't know how it escaped me that conceiving my first at age 44 might be a little difficult, but I was newly married at 43, and we just kept trying.

I kept BBT charts, and was attuned to my fertile time. I did not take any supplements, other than folic acid. All I can say is that the "less than 3% chance of conceiving" that I was given by the RE turned out to be all the chance I needed.

Don't give up!

BFP at 44 with IVF

2011-12-06T09:00:00.000-05:00

I also got a call from a 44 year old friend who just did IVF about a week before me.

She got a BFP [big fat positive pregnancy test] - and had transferred 8 not-so-hot embies!

Just goes to show you, you never know.

Healthy baby girl at 46

2011-12-05T09:00:00.000-05:00

The 46 year old speaks very poor English but her cousin happens to be the embryologist who works with my RE. Here is what I learned from both of them...

The woman has a 20 year old daughter and at age 45 was experiencing menopausal symptoms - hot flashes, mood swings, night sweats and insomnia. She was going to begin HRT when she decided to do a colon cleanse first. She found a good cleanse at a health food store and some herbal tea and changed her diet, and increased her fiber and water consumption for a period of 30 days.

She is an Amway distributor and also started taking some very high quality vitamins that they sell. She said within the month, she felt 100% better and virtually all of her symptoms had disappeared. There was no need for her to start the HRT since she was feeling so much better.

Low and behold, in another two months, she discovered she was pregnant. One year ago in August, at the age of 46+, she gave birth to a healthy baby girl.

She was born before my 44th birthday

2011-12-04T09:00:00.000-05:00

I conceived naturally a month or so after I turned 43, she was born 2 months before my 44th birthday.

Happy and healthy!

Gave birth 3 weeks before 44th birthday

2011-12-03T09:00:00.000-05:00

I conceived my son naturally at the age of 43, and gave birth to him 3 weeks before my 44th birthday.

I did conceive naturally also at the age of 42, but sadly miscarried.

Friend gave birth at 45

2011-12-02T09:00:00.000-05:00

A friend of mine (I know her well enough to know she was not "hiding" IVF or donor eggs from me) conceived her second child naturally at 44 and gave birth at 45.

She had one child at 39 and then one miscarriage, then her son. She did eat lots of nuts and seeds and is very healthy, but did nothing at all in the medical line.

Oldest patient to conceive with TCM was 49

2011-12-01T09:00:00.000-05:00

Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioners work with all kinds of women (successfully) throughout their forties.

I am my acupuncturist's oldest in her practice trying -- she has simply not had anyone my age want to.

The oldest woman who conceived with her so far was 49.

Older sister is pregnant at 44

2011-11-30T09:00:00.000-05:00

Older sister is pregnant at 44! Her second. They just seem like one of those "perfect families" that has so many good things come to them.

Granted, my sister had a miscarriage back in January, so it's encouraging that she got pregnant again and is 4 months along.

Nearly all genetic testing is done and things look really good and healthy.

I just called her house to speak to my niece (she just started first grade) and my brother-in-law says my sister is out buying maternity clothes!

I am pregnant again at 45

2011-11-29T09:00:00.000-05:00

Hi, I am pregnant again at age 45 in September. I had my 4th child last May.

Not sure what I should do...

Just found out I am pregnant again at 44

2011-11-28T09:00:00.000-05:00

I am 44 and have a 2 year old little boy. He is the love of my life. I just found out that I am pregnant again and am thrilled.

You shouldn't feel "too old" - your baby will bring you so much joy.

This will be my 1st & only child at 44

2011-11-27T09:00:00.001-05:00

Hi - is there anyone out there who's pregnant and alone in their 40s? I'm 44 and have just found out I'm pregnant. This will be my first (and only) child.

The father wants me to terminate and it looks like I'm going to be doing this alone. I've never really thought of myself as being "middle aged" before because I don't feel that way.

And neither have I worried too much about what other people think, but all of a sudden I'm terrified of walking my little baby and people commenting on my grandchild!

I am 47 and in my 21st week

2011-11-26T09:00:00.000-05:00

Hi, I am 47 and in my 21st week. So far everything is good.

I am also very overweight. Good luck.

Just had my 5th child at 47

2011-11-25T09:00:00.001-05:00

Maybe it'll help to know that I'm 47 and just had my fifth child last month (my sixth pregnancy).

Except for having gestational diabetes, and not a bad case of it at that, my pregnancy was AWESOME and my beautiful baby boy was born on his due date weighing in at 9 lbs. 2.2 oz and was 21 1/2 in. long.

By the way, as stated in the beginning, I've been pregnant six times, with five live births. I, too, miscarried at 6 weeks in my second pregnancy...and I was in my 20's at the time.

So, yes, it's quite possible to have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby later on!

11 weeks pregnant at 45

2011-11-24T09:00:00.000-05:00

I will be 45 in less than 2 weeks. I am 11 weeks pregnant. Heard good strong heartbeat today!

I rented a fetal doppler from Babybeat.com and I can listen to my baby's heartbeat anytime I want!

I am 9 wks pregnant with baby #13 at 45

2011-11-23T09:00:00.000-05:00

I will be 45 March 21 and I am 9 weeks pregnant with baby #13.

Of those 13 pregnancies, I have had 3 miscarriages. Since I was 35, I have had 6 pregnancies and 3 healthy baby boys.

My last baby was born two months before my 42nd birthday.

Healthy pregnancies at 46

2011-11-22T09:00:00.000-05:00

Did you take progesterone? I've heard women talk about taking it, but never asked my doctor.

He is not an RE, he's a regular ob/gyn and delivered my son.

He told me of two women he personally delivered for and both were over 46. Healthy pregnancies too.

I gave birth to my 11st baby at 44

2011-11-21T09:00:00.001-05:00

A year ago I gave birth to my first baby, a beautiful boy named Jacob Daniel. I was 44 years old. Like you I had been wondering about having another. It would be great to give Jacob a sibling. I loved being pregnant.

I came to the conclusion that I would love to have another baby and my younger husband (he's 35) and I are leaving it up to fate.

I am still breastfeeding twice a day (Jacob is slowly weaning himself) so that might be holding things up a bit but my cycles returned about 3 months ago so I am hoping for good luck soon.

A baby is always hard work but well worth it. I am so happy and thankful that I was able to conceive, carry and deliver a happy healthy baby at my age and would be ecstatic if it were to happen again.

Good luck to you whatever you decide.

I will be 45 when I deliver

2011-11-20T09:00:00.000-05:00

Go for it! I had my 2nd child at 41 and did have a harder time conceiving this baby. I will be 45 when I deliver, EDD 10/28.

I have had such an easy pregnancy so far. I did have amnio with this pregnancy, due to the fact that I had 2 prior miscarriages.

Good luck with you baby and any future little ones! - Tammy

Pregnant again at 45

2011-11-19T09:00:00.000-05:00

I am turning 45 in September, had my 4th child last May. I am pregnant again. Oops!

Know the risks, need some advise too. Thanks Kathy

I had my 1st & only child at 44

2011-11-18T09:00:00.001-05:00

I had my first and only child thus far at 44 - a beautiful, perfect daughter. I am now 47 and would love to get pregnant again.

I would stick with positive thoughts and consider the blessings. The Doctor's do tend to cover their bases with the "potential risks".

But, keep positive. - Deb

My pregnancy went 100% at 44

2011-11-17T09:00:00.000-05:00

I am almost 44 and have the most beautiful baby in the world. She is 10 months old, very healthy and gorgeous.

My pregnancy went 100% and the birth went very good. Baby and I left the hospital after 4 hours of birth. I am so much calmer than with my other children.

OLDER MUMS ARE THE BEST AND HAVE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BABIES! - Melany

50+, delivered beautiful healthy baby girl

2011-11-16T09:00:00.001-05:00

I too am over 40 and have just found out that I am pregnant again. What a shocker!

But exciting as well. Was also a LD nurse ... and have heard all the negatives, but have seen a lot of positives on the Labour floor.

The oldest being 50+ and delivered a beautiful healthy baby girl. I wish all of you God's blessings.

Mom of 5y old & 2y old at 47

2011-11-15T09:00:00.000-05:00

I am now 47 and the mother of a beautiful five year old AND a two year old. Both my pregnancies were textbook.

I still worry about looking like a grandmother, but I think there is more of us around than anyone thinks! Yes, it IS all in God's hands.

I just spoke with my sister-in-law who is seven weeks pregnant and not wanting to be. I'm trying to decide if I want another one! - Mary

I am 47 and pregnant

2011-11-14T09:00:00.000-05:00

I am 47 and just found out that I am pregnant.

I had my only child at 42. At 42 it went fine.

Have you found any sites that have charts for our ages and risks factors? - Judy

My cousin, 44, just had a baby girl

2011-11-13T09:00:00.000-05:00

But just wanted to say you all to please hang in there. My best friend from high school, who is 42, just called me to tell me she is pregnant.

I was so happy for her and yet a little sad for myself. She just decided she wanted to get pregnant after 15 years and Boom, it happened.

And she is over 40, and my cousin, 44, just had a baby girl. I hope this can bring some source of hope for you all.

It can still happen...no matter what they say.

My friend had her baby at 44

2011-11-12T09:00:00.000-05:00

Women are very healthy these days. My friend had her baby in June at the age of 43, nearly 44.

To look at her you would think she was more like a 30 year old. She wanted to get her degree first, etc.

Mother of the twins at 46

2011-11-11T09:00:00.001-05:00

I am sure at 40 you can have healthy and beautiful babies.

I moved to a new house and every afternoon I saw a lady walking with twins boys. I always look at her and I made my own story about her. That is the grandma of the twins.

Oh boy! What mistake. The lady was the mother of the twins and she have them at 45, almost 46 years old.

The twins are around 3 years old, so the lady is close to 50 and she looks older than that. My point is that it is possible being mother at 45 and have healthy kids.

I am 47 and 8 weeks pregnant

2011-11-10T09:00:00.000-05:00

Hi, I am 47 and 8 weeks pregnant. I conceived naturally and each time I did conceive, it was when I had abundant cervical. I had my daughter at 40 and she is great.

We tried off and on for about 4 years and 3 miscarriages later (1st two at 6 weeks and last one at 10 weeks) to get pregnant, but it just didn't take.

A couple of years ago I asked the OB if there was a possibility that I could still get pregnant. Based on a FSH blood test, he said that I was very close to menopause and that it would be a miracle for me to get pregnant.

Well, I have been given a miracle.

Nana had an 'oops' baby in her mid 40s

2011-11-09T09:00:00.000-05:00

OK, my mom's parents had 6 children. The youngest was an "oops baby” when Nana was in her mid 40's (I hope I take after her.)

That oops baby, my Uncle John who is about 11 years older than me and 16 years younger than my mother is the sibling in my mom's family who keeps them all together by planning all the family celebrations.

Everyone always ends up at his house for 9 out of 10 occasions.

Pregnancy risk may not be zero over 50

2011-11-08T09:00:00.000-05:00

Although sexual intercourse becomes less frequent as couples grow older, and fecundity also declines, the probability of pregnancy still exists if contraceptive methods are not used. Research has shown that half of all women in their early forties are still fertile.

Without contraception, the annual risk of pregnancy is around 10% for women aged 40-44 and 2-3% for women aged 45-49, and the risk may not be zero for women over 50.

In women over 45 years who have not menstruated for one year the probability of subsequent menstruation (which could be ovulatory) is estimated to be 2-10%.

There is a clearly established need for contraception until the menopause is established.

His oldest patient was 59 years old

2011-11-07T09:00:00.001-05:00

The new acupuncture doctor I have been seeing told me a wonderful story about a patient of his that I wanted to share with you guys:

There was a woman who owned her own company in New York City, very successful career woman who had tried to have a baby throughout her 40's. Finally at 50 she gave up. Then she had a psychic (she visited in California) who told her that she would have a baby girl at 51 but that she needed the help of a man with a black bag who was an acupuncture doctor and whose name started with and F.

She thought that was very strange and really didn't give it much thought, until after she returned to New York City, and some time later a colleague of hers mentioned an acupuncture doctor. His name was Francis. So this woman decided to check him out. After 8 months or so of acupuncture treatments with Francis, she got pregnant for the first time in her life and had a healthy baby girl, her first and only child.

He also has treated other women over 40 who have gone on to have healthy pregnancies. His oldest was 59 years old. This woman had several other children and I believe she was Ashkenazy. There have been some studies that suggest that Ashkenazy Jewish women have longer fertility.